Putting the fun back in dysfunctional.
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I’ve wanted my own domain since was I was eighteen and I read feminist blogs and didn’t shave my legs ’cause I thought it was a cool feminist thing to do. (Now I just don’t because I’m lazy and busy).
And it just never happened until this week. I’ve transferred everything from this blog to the new website.
I am not in love with the theme. But I have to stop playing with it right now and do some writing. I loved the theme I had before this one, it was so pretty. But the comments were broken.
I am having trouble finding one I like, with a customizable header and custom colors and three column.
My big problem is I want SHINY things I’ve seen on other websites. I want my books featured on a side column. I want a custom blog. I want a custom site.
I want champagne. My budget is more box wine.
Or more get a hot guy to buy you a drink and then walk away with it. Does anyone know a hot guy programmer who will set me up a blog for the joy of it?
Me neither. There’s part of me that wishes that I had gone in for computer science. really shoulda done that instead of English Major. There are no jobs with English Major as a pre-requisite. I never did finish it either. I dropped out after I failed English 110 my first year.
So I guess you are probably wondering where this new site is.
yes asraidevin DOT com. is my website. simple, easy, to the point.
Maybe in a bit I’ll hire someone to set up a website/blog. Or I’ll find a theme I really love. I do love my header or a couple snuggling on a picnic blanket. Anyway, I’ll probably post here when I put up a new blog over there, with a link. Once the new site starts getting my search engine traction I’ll phase this site out. Or not. maybe I’ll just transform this into my non writer blog where I write about … well never mind that’s another point.
I am trying to figure out a new posting schedule and new topics to bring. My number one goal is to show case some other authors, have guests posts and the like, to gain more visibility and keep myself motivated. Have to post when you promised someone else. I’d be a hermit if I could or just talk about myself. No one wants that.
For everyone and anyone who blogs via Blogger platform and wonders why I don’t comment, it’s because Blogger hates me.
I’m trying to comment on a post as I type this. It’s an owned website which uses the Blogger (google owned) interface for their blog. I’m going to give up. I really want to leave this comment so I am persevering.
Earlier I tried on the same site and the captcha wasn’t working. Which is what is usually the problem.
Tonight the problem is my wordpress address. Apparently it cannot be verified.
Half the time I can’t read the image that google/Blogger provides me for the captcha so I’m guess. And when I am sure of it, it just tells me I’ve typed it in wrong.
Oh it finally worked, but it’s being held for approval. Which I think happened two or three times, but i missed it.
Blogger make your captchas REAL words so we can figure out what it is we are supposed to type out. Or anyone using blogger, change to WordPress, please. (Which, said, I still use blogger for my smut stuff, but I don’t expect much commenting).
** the blog post in question is this: http://www.thealphaparent.com/2012/11/the-laziness-conundrum.html
to which I need to reply this:
It is too easy and often pushed on tired new moms to just “give baby a bottle”. Uninformed doctors, nurses, partners, friends and family push the issue on struggling moms. I don’t think the blame is solely on the mom. (It amazes me how few people search out knowledge for any topic). The whole culture surrounding babies needs to change.
Sure the post is blunt and judgemental. Judgment and/or criticism isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s like watching a friend make a bad choice repeatedly and staying silent or worse, supporting her choice to ram her life into a brick wall. Maybe she needs some blunt truth.
Maybe we don’t need to work so hard not to offend people. It is hard to take a hard stance